From Somatics by Thomas Hanna
Indeed, its is part of the American Dream to “have it made,” it being clearly understood that a person who “has it made” is a person who has attained the status of doing nothing - of being inactive. A body in a bathing suit by a swimming pool, lying motionless on a chaise lounge, is the American image of “having it made.” We should not forget, however, that this is also the image of a dead body…
To become an adult means that we no longer have to do the same things we did as kids. Kids run, but we adults walk. Kids climb, but we take the elevator. Kids scoot under bushes, but we go around them. Kids stand on their heads, but we sit on our bottoms. Kids roll on the ground, but we turn on the mattress. Kids jump up and down, but we shrug our shoulders up and down. Kids laugh with joy, but we smile with restraint. Kids are exuberant, but we are careful. Kids want to have fun, but we want to have security.
In short, to become a “successful” adult means to cease acting like a kid. It is the customary sign of adulthood to cease functioning like a young person. But this conception of adulthood has an unavoidable result: As soon as we stop using these functions, we lose them. And we lose them because our brain, which is a highly responsive organ of adaptation, adjusts to this lack of activity. If certain actions are no longer part of our behavioral inventory, our brain crosses them off. In a word, it forgets. The practical everyday awareness of how these actions feel and how they are performed fades away.